Isn't that a bummer? You love how it looks....and then it dries and isn't quite as special. 
I personally like Renaissance Microcrystalline wax for deepening colors. But if that's not enough, you may need to use a clear spray lacquer in either matte or glossy.
I'd experiment with a number of products on some pieces to find the solution you like best - just make sure to wear the pieces a while afterward to see how the coating handles over time.
~Addie~